PROCRASTINATION FROM FEAR OF FAILURE: PRACTICAL WAYS TO STOP

About the author: Dr. Gustavo Benejam is a licensed clinical psychologist with experience in Psychological Evaluations and evaluating and treating anxiety, trauma, and emotional regulation issues. Key Takeaways Procrastination often stems from a fear of failure and fear of judgment.Avoidance becomes a habit that reinforces anxiety and self-doubt.Perfectionism and unrealistic...

LOVE BOMBING: WHEN LOVE FEELS LIKE TOO MUCH

About the author: Dr. Gustavo Benejam is a licensed clinical psychologist with experience in Psychological Evaluations and evaluating and treating anxiety, trauma, and emotional regulation issues. Key Takeaways Emotional suffocation happens when care or love feels overwhelming instead of comforting.It’s often caused by blurred boundaries and overdependence in close relationships.People...

WHY SOME ADULTS CUT CONTACT WITH FAMILY

Family estrangement is often misunderstood as impulsive, cold, or disrespectful. In reality, many adults who cut contact with family do so after years of emotional pain, boundary violations, manipulation, chronic invalidation, or unresolved trauma. This article explains the psychology behind family cutoff, the toxic relational patterns that often lead to...

EMOTIONAL HYPERVIGILANCE IN MOTHERHOOD: SIGNS, CAUSES & SUPPORT

About the author: Dr. Gustavo Benejam is a licensed clinical psychologist with experience in Psychological Evaluations and evaluating and treating anxiety, trauma, and emotional regulation issues. Key Takeaways Small triggers can escalate when your nervous system is already under strain. Emotional “spinning out” is often a feedback loop, not a...

FAMILY DENIAL VS DRAMA: HOW TO SET BOUNDARIES

About the author: Dr. Gustavo Benejam is a licensed clinical psychologist with experience in Psychological Evaluations and evaluating and treating anxiety, trauma, and emotional regulation issues. Key Takeaways Denial protects the family story, not the family members Drama is the externalized chaos created by unresolved truth Truth-tellers are often scapegoated...

NARCISSISTIC SON AND HIS MOTHER: SIGNS, FAMILY ROLES, AND HEALTHIER BOUNDARIES

About the author: Dr. Gustavo Benejam is a licensed clinical psychologist with experience in Psychological Evaluations and evaluating and treating anxiety, trauma, and emotional regulation issues. Key Takeaways A narcissistic son often displays entitlement, lack of empathy, and manipulative behavior.Family roles in these dynamics can include enablers, scapegoats, and caretakers.The...

Hijo narcisista y su madre: señales, roles familiares y límites más saludables

Navigating the Complex Relationship with a Narcissistic Son: Understanding Patterns, Family Dynamics, and Setting Healthy Boundaries It can be emotionally exhausting and confusing when your son displays narcissistic traits, leaving you feeling trapped in a cycle of guilt and obligation. .This article explores the common behaviors, the family roles that...

TOXIC MOTHERS: SIGNS, EFFECTS AND HOW TO PROTECT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH

About the author: Dr. Gustavo Benejam is a licensed clinical psychologist with experience in Psychological Evaluations and evaluating and treating anxiety, trauma, and emotional regulation issues. Key Takeaways Toxic mother behaviors can deeply affect emotional well-being.Signs include criticism, manipulation, emotional unavailability, and boundary violations.Long-term exposure can lead to anxiety, depression,...